I just prefer to keep people guessing... at least a little bit.

[He scratches his neck, trying to turn the questions over in the context of what he's seen of Rowan.]

Even here, where most people think of me as a man, at least Ren thinks I'm a woman, and that makes it... [not fine, but fine. Bearable is perhaps closer.] If I'm on both sides, I'm on neither. [Maybe that's the most succinct description of why remaining ambiguous is so important to him.] Because people will always put me on either- [He stops himself there.] or does that not happen for you?