Well, that's why I don't let anyone see what I got underneath everything. And for anyone who does, I tell 'em straight off that I'm neither. Can't stop them from mucking up in their heads, but at least they mostly keep it straight out loud.

But for me what makes it bearable is when no one can agree. If everyone started saying I was a man, or that I was a woman, I'd need to shift somewhat the other way. Like you said, keep people guessing.